Please give a warm welcome to Selene Castrovilla! She’s stopping by today to discuss the struggle between love and hate as part of her Rough Romance Trilogy Blog Tour. Featured below is book 2, SIGNS OF LIFE, but be sure to check out MELT if you haven’t already. Enter the Rafflecopter below for a chance to win!
Love, Hate and a Very Rough Romance
by Selene Castrovilla
Right now, I’m thinking about love and hate. The struggle between them. This is the central conflict in my Rough Romance Trilogy. And, in the world. It always has been — take a look at the Bible, for example — and these days it’s been demanding our attention through increased acts of hate. Some obvious, some subtle.
The thing about love and hate is that they’re distorted, and subject to our mind’s filtering. So what you think about them and what I think about them may be entirely different, based not only on brain chemistry but also life experience.
Take, Joey, for example. One of the two main characters in my saga. Having been abused his whole life in a family setting, having watched a father who is supposed to cherish his mother instead brutally attack her and shove a gun down her throat, he can’t even bear to consider that love can be separated from hate.
And then we have guns. Instruments of destruction, and yet oh so glamorized by Hollywood, and touted as tools for protection in society. “Kill or be killed” is the unspoken NRA mantra. Here is a clear example of warping the distinction between love and hate.
Love vs. hate being the central conflict in my tale, a gun is the tangible object. A gun, used by Joey’s dad, a cop, to “serve and protect” all day. At night, he wields it to terrorize the people he should care most about protecting.
“He holds her against him blue sleeve on white apron
squeezing into her ribs like he’s doing the Heimlich
his tie clip presses in her back
he sticks his semi-automatic piece of crap weapon in her mouth
it against her teeth…”
- Joey, in Melt
This gun is ultimately the deciding factor of whether Joey will join the side of love or hate (having finally separated the two.) Interestingly, much of my audience wasn’t clear on that choice when they finished Melt. I was satisfied with my end (and exhausted!) — but they demanded more. What happened next to Joey?
And then there’s Dorothy: the innocent. Raised in shelter, never exposed to violence, or hate. In Melt she is nearly destroyed mentally by her first encounter.
In Signs of Life, her physical life is at stake. We jump from inside her to Joey and even to the villainous, evil Pop, trying to grasp what life, death, good, evil, love and hate really mean.
still, or did
survive even when
-Dorothy, in Signs of Life
The book explores what happens to both her body and her psyche after the unthinkable occurs. It explores what happens to her family, and Joey — and even Pop. The conversion of love and hate.
I hope you’ll use Melt and Signs of Life as conversation-starters with teens and adults alike — and with yourself. Yes, you can have an inner dialogue. I give you permission.
I don’t have the answers, I just present the questions. Is there a path out of hate into love, and how do we find it? I think the journey starts with empathy — with caring about each other regardless of our differences. We all bleed. Let’s hope we can all heal.
About Selene Castrovilla
Many thanks to Selene for stopping by today! Readers, be sure to enter the Rafflecopter below for a chance to win! Follow the tour schedule below to gain more entries.
One signed set of MELT and SIGN OF LIFE (US Only)
$50 Gift Card to Amazon or Book Depository (International)
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